You own your home and need cash or monthly income, and a reverse mortgage is closed to you, costs too much, or feels wrong. Here is every real option, what each one costs, who it fits, and what it does to your taxes, with figures dated October 2026.
By Hans Goldstein, EA · Updated October 15, 2026
The main alternatives to a reverse mortgage are a home equity loan or HELOC, a cash-out refinance, selling and downsizing, selling and renting, a sale-leaseback, renting out part of the home, senior property tax postponement, home equity sharing, a family loan or sale, and selling the home with the price paid out over years. Which one wins depends on three things: whether you want to stay, whether you can make a monthly payment, and how big the taxable gain is. If you stay and have income, a HELOC or home equity loan is usually the cheapest cash. If you will sell and the gain is large, an installment sale paid over years can leave you with more after tax: on a $2.0 million California home bought long ago, the federal and state tax on the gain is about $305,330 if it all lands in one year, versus about $107,835 plus tax on the interest if it is paid over 5 years (October 14, 2026 engine run, assumptions below).
Five questions. Nothing is sent anywhere. You get a short list, each with a link to the section that explains it.
Education, not advice. The quiz cannot see your income, credit or title. Use it to decide what to price out first.
Read across a row to see what each one does. Costs vary by lender and state, so treat them as the questions to ask, not quotes. Federal figures and rates were checked October 15, 2026. The comparison starts with the reverse mortgage itself so you can see what you are measuring against.
| # | Option | Cash now | Monthly payment | Stay in the home? | Heirs keep the home? | Tax effect | Typical cost |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Reverse mortgage (HECM), for comparison | Lump sum, line of credit or monthly | None required; taxes, insurance and upkeep still yours | Yes, while it is your main home | Only if they repay the loan or 95% of appraised value, if less | Loan proceeds are not income | Origination up to $6,000, 2% upfront insurance, 0.5% a year, interest, all added to the balance | |
| 1 | Home equity loan | Lump sum | Yes, fixed | Yes | Yes | Interest may be deductible if used on the home | Lender fees and closing costs; qualifying income and credit |
| 2 | HELOC | As you draw | Yes, usually interest-only first, rate moves with prime | Yes | Yes | Same as above | Margin over prime (7.00% on Oct 13, 2026), fees; lender can freeze the line |
| 3 | Cash-out refinance | Lump sum | Yes, on the whole new balance | Yes | Yes | Same as above | Closing costs plus a new rate on every dollar (30-year fixed 7.40% on Oct 15, 2026) |
| 4 | Sell and downsize | Large, after selling costs and tax | None on the cash; the smaller home may have one | In a smaller home | A smaller one | Gain above $250,000 / $500,000 is taxed | About 6% selling costs (a planning figure), moving |
| 5 | Sell and rent | Large, after selling costs and tax | Rent, which can rise | No | No home, but cash | Same as above | About 6% selling costs, then rent |
| 6 | Sale-leaseback | Sale price, often below market | Rent to the new owner | For the lease term | No | Same as a sale | Price discount, rent set to give the investor a return |
| 7 | Installment sale (payout over years) | Buyer pays in full at closing; you take payments | Income to you, fixed | No | No home; payments can pass on | Gain taxed as paid (IRC §453); lower brackets, less NIIT and IRMAA risk | Written analysis $5,000 if you hire us; annuity pricing |
| 8 | Family loan or sale to a relative | Depends on the deal | Set by the note | Possible | Depends | Interest rules (IRC §7872), gift reporting above $19,000 | Legal drafting; family risk |
| 9 | Rent a room, an ADU or the house | None, but monthly income | None | Room or ADU: yes | Yes | Rent is taxable income; can affect the §121 exclusion | Landlord work, insurance, repairs |
| 10 | Property tax postponement | None; lowers a bill | None; lien builds | Yes | Yes, after repaying the lien | No change | Interest in some states, a lien in all |
| 11 | Home equity sharing | Lump sum | None | Yes | Only if the investor is paid out | Treatment varies; get it reviewed | A share of future value; can run past 10% a year |
| 12 | Proprietary (jumbo) reverse mortgage | Lump sum or line | None required | Yes | Only if repaid | Loan proceeds are not income | Higher fees, no federal insurance |
| 13 | Medicaid and long-term care planning | None; protects assets | Varies | Depends on care | Possible | Gifts reportable; income rules | Elder law attorney fees; 60-month look-back |
| 14 | Keep the home, use other money | From other assets | None | Yes | Yes, with a stepped-up basis | The gain can vanish at death (IRC §1014) | Taxes on what you sell or withdraw instead |
A reverse mortgage (the federal HECM loan) lets a homeowner 62 or older borrow against the home with no required monthly payment. It is a real tool, and for some people staying in a paid-off home for many years it is the right one. It stops working, or stops being the best fit, for these common reasons:
This page does not teach how a HECM works. It compares the other roads, and shows the one most people have not heard of. For the federal basics, see the CFPB reverse mortgage guide and talk to a HUD-approved housing counselor; HECM counseling is required.
A home equity loan is a second mortgage paid out as a lump sum with a fixed rate and a fixed payment. A HELOC is a line of credit with a variable rate: you draw as needed, usually pay interest only for a draw period, then repay. Both keep the title in your name and leave your heirs the house.
| Home equity loan or HELOC | Reverse mortgage (HECM) | |
|---|---|---|
| Monthly payment | Required | None required |
| Who qualifies | Income and credit matter | Age 62+, live in the home, counseling; income matters less |
| What happens to the balance | Shrinks as you repay | Grows with interest and insurance |
| Upfront cost | Lender fees, closing costs | 2% insurance on the home value, origination up to $6,000, closing costs |
| If you move | Sell and repay | Due when it stops being your main home |
| Best for | Smaller amount, steady income, shorter horizon | Staying a long time with tight cash flow |
If someone asks you to choose between a reverse mortgage and a HELOC, the honest answer starts with one question: can you carry the payment for ten years if rates rise? If yes, the HELOC or home equity loan almost always costs less. If no, the reverse mortgage is the only one in this pair that works, and the alternatives below matter more.
You replace your mortgage with a bigger one and keep the difference. That reprices every dollar you owe at today’s rate. The 30-year fixed rate was 7.40% and the 15-year was 6.71% for the week of October 15, 2026 (Freddie Mac, via FRED).
Income without a loan. A roommate, a backyard unit or a rented-out house can cover a gap of a few hundred to a few thousand dollars a month. Check local zoning and your insurer before you build or list.
If the property tax bill is the real squeeze, a state or county program may let you postpone it. These do not put cash in your pocket. They stop the bill from forcing a sale, and the postponed tax becomes a lien you repay when you sell, move or die. Here are four programs checked against official sources on October 15, 2026. Income limits and rates change each year, so confirm with the agency before you rely on any of them.
| State | Who qualifies | What it does | Source |
|---|---|---|---|
| California | Age 62+, blind or disabled; at least 40% equity; household income $57,002 or less (2026-27) | Postpones current-year property tax on your main home, secured by a lien. Filing period October 1, 2026 to February 10, 2027. | State Controller |
| Texas | Age 65+ (or disabled) who owns and lives in the home as a residence homestead | File an affidavit with the appraisal district. Collection is deferred, the lien stays, and interest accrues at 5% a year during deferral. | Tax Code §33.06 |
| Washington | Age 60+ (or retired for disability); combined disposable income at or below the county threshold; fire insurance in force | Defers property tax and special assessments; the state keeps a lien against your equity. | RCW 84.38.030 |
| Oregon | Age 62+ (or disabled) who meets the household income and homestead rules | The state pays the county and records a lien; the deferred tax is repaid when you sell or die. | ORS 311.668 |
Most other states have an exemption, a freeze or a deferral for older owners. Ask your county assessor or tax collector, and run your age and income through BenefitsCheckUp and the Eldercare Locator, which also list home repair and utility help.
California note for movers. If you are 55 or older and sell, Proposition 19 lets you carry your current property tax base to a replacement home anywhere in California, up to three times, if you buy within 2 years of the sale. File within 3 years of the purchase (Board of Equalization, checked October 15, 2026). It is one of the better reasons for a California senior to downsize rather than borrow.
A child or relative lends you money, or buys the home. It can be the cheapest and most flexible route, and the easiest to get wrong.
A company gives you cash now with no monthly payment, and in return gets a share of the home’s future value, or of its change in value, when you sell or at the end of a set term. It is not a loan, so there is no payment, and it also is not cheap. Terms differ a lot, so read the formula in the contract before anything else.
Arithmetic on hypothetical terms, not any company’s offer: you receive $90,000 against a $900,000 home, and the investor takes 25% of the future value at the end of 10 years. If the home grows 3% a year it is worth $1,209,525, and the investor’s 25% is $302,381. You paid $302,381 for $90,000 you received, which works out to about 12.9% a year. If the home does not grow, you may pay less; if it grows faster, more.
If your home is worth more than the $1,249,125 federal limit, a private lender may offer a larger reverse mortgage on its own terms. There is no federal insurance and fewer protections, so rates and fees can be higher, and the rules on spouses and repayment come from the lender’s contract. It can fit a high-value home where you plan to stay for a long time and want no payment. Ask for the same total-cost sheet you would ask of any lender, and compare it with selling.
If you have an IRA, a brokerage account or a CD ladder, it may cost less to spend that and let the home ride. At death your heirs take the home at its value then (IRC §1014), and the gain can disappear. The cost is the tax on what you sell or withdraw, so compare it with the cost of borrowing before choosing.
Selling turns the home into cash without a loan balance, but the tax can be large on a home bought long ago. A married couple excludes the first $500,000 of gain and a single owner $250,000 (IRC §121). Gain above that is taxed at up to 20% federal, plus the 3.8% net investment income tax (IRC §1411) and state tax, and a big one-year gain can raise your Medicare premiums (IRMAA). Check the real figure with the seller net sheet after tax before you decide.
Sell, buy a smaller or cheaper home, and keep the difference. It is the oldest alternative and often the simplest: less upkeep, no loan balance, and cash for whatever comes next.
Sell, invest the proceeds, and rent. You swap a home that costs you upkeep for rent you can plan. Many people who search “sell my house and rent” want to know if the math works, and it depends on the rent against what the proceeds can safely produce.
You sell to an investor or a company and sign a lease so you stay. People search “sell my house and rent it back” when they want the cash and do not want to move. It works for some people and costs most.
This is the option most reverse mortgage guides never mention. The buyer pays the full price in cash at closing, so you are not the bank and take no risk on the buyer. At closing, the proceeds go into an annuity that pays you on a schedule you pick, and under IRC §453 the gain is taxed as you receive it instead of all in one year. It has to be written into the sale contract before closing.
Why it matters if you are comparing a reverse mortgage: a reverse mortgage gives you cash you owe back with interest. An installment sale gives you income from your own money, with a smaller tax bill each year, which can mean you net more after tax on a large gain. Because payments are fixed and arrive for years, it can also cover a monthly care bill: see paying for long-term care with your home.
If a nursing home or memory care is likely, the order of every step changes. Medicaid looks back 60 months at transfers for less than fair value, and a penalty period can follow (42 U.S.C. §1396p). Your home may be exempt in some circumstances but there are limits on home equity, and an estate recovery claim can follow after death. A payout from an installment sale counts as income. This is the one area where you should see an elder law attorney before doing anything, including taking a reverse mortgage.
Read these two next: how to pay for a nursing home or memory care with your house and selling a house in a trust to pay for care. Both go step by step through sell, rent, borrow or Medicaid, with the tax on each.
A $900,000 home, $150,000 needed. All three figures below are illustrative, built from the dated inputs shown, and are not quotes. Rates use the Federal Reserve prime rate and the Freddie Mac survey. Lender margins and closing costs differ.
| Reverse mortgage (HECM) | HELOC | Cash-out refinance | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Upfront | $18,000 insurance (2% of $900,000) plus up to $6,000 origination, before closing costs | Lender fees; varies | Closing costs; varies |
| Monthly payment | None required | $1,000 interest-only at an illustrative 8.0% (prime 7.00% + 1.00) | $2,423 on a new $350,000 loan at 7.40%, vs $898 now on the old $200,000 at 3.5% |
| Balance after 10 years | Grows; interest and 0.5% yearly insurance are added | Still $150,000 if interest-only | Falls with payments; a new 30-year clock |
| What changes if rates rise | Adjustable-rate HECM balance grows faster | Payment rises | Nothing, if fixed |
| Best when | No way to carry a payment | Short bridge, stable income | Existing rate is above the new rate |
Source dates: prime 7.00% (October 13, 2026, FRED); 30-year fixed 7.40% (week of October 15, 2026, Freddie Mac via FRED); HECM fee rules (24 CFR 206.31 and 206.105). The 8.0% HELOC rate is an assumption for the example, not a lender quote.
A married couple in California, both 74. They bought their home in 1988 for $310,000 and have put in $40,000 of improvements, so their basis is $350,000. They sell for $2,000,000 with $120,000 of selling costs. They use the $500,000 exclusion. The taxable gain is $1,030,000. Other income is $90,000 a year from Social Security and a pension. A reverse mortgage on this home would be capped by the $1,249,125 federal limit, not the $2.0 million value.
| Cash sale, all in 2026 | Installment sale, paid over 5 years | |
|---|---|---|
| Taxable gain after exclusion | $1,030,000 | $1,030,000 |
| Tax on the gain | $305,330 (29.6% of the gain) | $107,835 over 5 years |
| Tax on the interest the payments carry | Not applicable | $110,846 over 5 years |
| Yearly payment | Whatever you withdraw | $434,233 a year |
| After-tax money at year 5, if untouched | $1,909,584 | $1,961,889 ($52,305 more) |
The payout stays ahead because less tax is paid in year one, so more money keeps working. The gap is a model, not a promise: it grows or shrinks with the payout rate, the number of years and your other income. If the gain were under $500,000 there would be no federal tax to manage and the table would not apply.
Run on October 14, 2026 with the Goldstein & Co. engine: 2026 federal brackets, the 3.8% net investment income tax and AMT (IRS Rev. Proc. 2025-32), and 2026 state brackets. The 5.0% payout rate is an assumption, not a quote. After-tax money at the end assumes nothing is spent and both paths earn 5.0%, taxed every year. These are estimates, not a quote.
Related: forced-to-sell step-by-step guides, how seniors can owe $0 federal capital gains in 2026, how a structured installment sale works and every option compared side by side. For the technical tax detail, Big Sale Tax on California installment sales.
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The main alternatives are a home equity loan or HELOC, a cash-out refinance, selling and downsizing, selling and renting, a sale-leaseback, renting out a room or the house, senior property tax postponement, home equity sharing, a family loan or sale, and selling the home with the price paid out over years. The table on this page compares all 14 on cash now, monthly payment, staying in the home, what heirs keep, tax and cost.
It depends on whether you want to stay. If you stay and have steady income, a HELOC or home equity loan is usually the cheapest cash. If you will sell and your gain is above the home sale exclusion, an installment sale paid over years can leave you with more after tax. If you cannot carry any payment and want to stay, a reverse mortgage may still be the right tool.
For seniors with a large gain who are willing to sell, an installment sale turns the home into steady payments and spreads the tax on the gain across years. For seniors who want to stay, a smaller HELOC, renting part of the home, or a property tax postponement program is common. Neither fits everyone.
A home equity loan has a fixed payment and costs less, but you need income and credit and must make the payment. A reverse mortgage has no required payment, but the balance grows with interest and insurance and you must live in the home. If you can carry the payment for ten years, the home equity loan is usually cheaper. If you cannot, the reverse mortgage is the one that works.
A HELOC needs a monthly payment and a variable rate that can rise, so it can be risky on a fixed income. A reverse mortgage needs no payment but costs more upfront and the balance grows. If you can afford the payment and plan to stay, a HELOC usually costs less for a smaller amount. A lender can also freeze or cut a HELOC.
A HECM is the federally insured reverse mortgage for homeowners 62 and older. A HELOC is a revolving line of credit with a monthly payment. The HECM has no required payment and a growing balance, plus upfront insurance of 2% of the home value (up to the federal limit). The HELOC has a variable rate and a payment from day one.
A reverse mortgage is better if you want to live in the home for many more years and keep it for your heirs. Selling is better if you will move soon, want to stop a growing debt, or have a gain large enough that spreading the tax matters. If the sale is a large gain, ask about an installment sale paid over years.
Downsizing gives you a lump sum and a smaller home with no loan balance, but you pay selling costs and any tax over your exclusion. A reverse mortgage keeps you in the house but adds a growing balance. The better choice depends on whether you want to move. In California, buyers 55 and older can carry their property tax base to a replacement home.
A cash-out refinance replaces your mortgage with a bigger one at today’s rate and needs a monthly payment. On October 15, 2026 the average 30-year fixed rate was 7.40% (Freddie Mac), so refinancing a cheap mortgage can raise your payment a lot. A reverse mortgage needs no payment but costs more upfront and adds a growing balance.
Yes. It is called a sale-leaseback. You sell to an investor or company and sign a lease to stay. The price is usually below an open-market sale because the buyer needs a return, the rent is set to give them one, and the lease can end. Taxes are the same as a sale. Compare the net with a plain sale and with an installment sale before you sign.
Rarely. It lets you stay and get cash with no loan, but you lose the home, usually take a lower price, and pay rent that can rise. It can make sense for a short bridge when no other option exists. Have an attorney read the lease and compare the net to a plain sale.
Many states let older owners postpone property tax and repay it from the sale or the estate, with a lien. California’s program for 2026-27 allows household income up to $57,002 with at least 40% equity, and applications run from October 1, 2026 to February 10, 2027. Texas, Washington and Oregon have programs too. Check your county assessor for the rules where you live.
Usually only as a last resort. You get cash and no payment, but the investor takes a share of the home’s future value, which can work out to a double-digit yearly cost. Ask for the payoff at 0%, 3% and 6% growth and compare it with a reverse mortgage and a sale.
AARP is a nonprofit, not a lender, and publishes its own guides. This page covers the same ground in one place: HELOC, home equity loan, cash-out refinance, downsizing, renting, sale-leaseback, home equity sharing, family help, tax postponement and an installment sale. Read AARP’s guide as a second opinion.
Yes. The 2026 federal HECM limit is $1,249,125. On a more valuable home you can sell, downsize, or sell with a payout over years. Some lenders offer proprietary jumbo reverse mortgages with no federal insurance. Compare the costs in writing.
Rent a room, an ADU or the whole house, take a HELOC if you qualify, or sell and invest the proceeds. An installment sale pays you monthly or yearly from an annuity funded at closing, on a schedule you pick.
Only on gain above your exclusion: $250,000 single, $500,000 married filing jointly (IRC §121). Gain above that is taxed, and a payout over years can lower each year’s tax. Your CPA should confirm your basis.
Yes. The sale pays off the reverse mortgage balance at closing, and you keep whatever is left. If the house sells for less than the balance, a federally insured HECM is non-recourse, so you or your heirs do not owe the shortfall. A title company will order a payoff figure from the servicer.
The balance becomes due and payable when the home is no longer your principal residence, or after more than 12 consecutive months away for illness, unless another borrower still lives there (24 CFR 206.27). The home is usually sold to repay it, and what is left over goes to you or your estate. Plan the sale or payoff before month 12.
The loan becomes due when the last borrower dies. Heirs can sell and keep any equity, pay off the loan to keep the house (HUD rules generally let heirs pay the lesser of the balance or 95% of the appraised value; ask the servicer), refinance, or hand the house to the lender if it is worth less than the loan. Do not ignore the letters. The house gets a stepped-up basis at death, so a sale soon after often has little tax.
A reverse mortgage is a loan, so the money you receive is generally not taxable income. It usually does not count as income for Social Security or Medicare, but it can affect needs-tested benefits like Medicaid or SSI if you keep the cash. Interest is generally deductible only when it is actually paid, which is usually at payoff. A preparer can confirm what applies to you.
You have three business days after closing to cancel a new reverse mortgage (12 CFR 1026.23). After that, the exits are to pay it off by sale or refinance, or to ask the servicer about a deed in lieu of foreclosure. Call the servicer, then see a HUD-approved counselor.
Expect an origination fee of up to $6,000, closing costs, an upfront mortgage insurance premium of 2% of the home value up to the federal limit, 0.5% a year in insurance, servicing fees and interest, all added to the balance. Counseling is required. Ask each lender for the total cost over 5, 10 and 15 years and the amount you net, and compare it with a sale.
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A federally insured reverse mortgage (the HECM) needs the borrower to be 62 or older. Under 62, the main options are a HELOC or home equity loan, a cash-out refinance, selling and downsizing, renting a room or the house, or a family loan.
It depends on whether the spouse qualifies as an eligible non-borrowing spouse under HUD rules: generally married to the borrower when the loan closed and living in the home. An eligible spouse may be allowed to stay after the borrower dies, if conditions are met. A spouse who does not qualify may have to repay the loan or leave. Ask the servicer in writing before you sign.
Yes. You can pay the loan off with savings, a new mortgage, or money from selling something else. Ask the servicer for a payoff letter. A refinance to a regular mortgage needs income and credit. A relative can help pay it off, but a gift to or from someone on Medicaid has other rules.
Failing to pay property tax, insurance or repairs can make the loan due, and it is the most common reason borrowers lose the home. Some lenders will set aside money in the loan for these, and some states and counties have property tax postponement programs for seniors. Ask early.
Every alternative trades something. A HELOC has a monthly payment and a variable rate. Downsizing has selling costs and moving. Renting has rent that can rise. A sale can create a tax bill. Keeping the house for the step-up needs other money to live on. A reverse mortgage has no payment but the debt grows.
A HECM can pay as a lump sum, a monthly amount for as long as you live in the home, a line of credit that grows, or a mix. Interest and fees are added to the balance in every case. The amount available depends on your age, the interest rate and the home value up to the HUD limit.
A reverse mortgage calculator gives a rough number from your age, home value and an assumed rate. The real figure depends on the lender’s rate, fees and your age on the day of closing. Use any calculator for a ballpark, then ask the lender for a written quote with all costs, and compare it with the seller net sheet after tax.

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